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I second your proposal regarding canonical form for marriage 1000%! I particularly like your using a phrase I used privately for years — the “get-out-of-marriage-free card” — I will happily cede to you the rights for it!

I have several younger relatives, all baptized Catholic as infants, who were raised Protestants (after their Catholic father left the Church) and married in Protestant ceremonies. They all have strong marriages and good families — but they are denied the graces of the sacrament of matrimony, which I find deeply unfair. If any of them found out about this canonical requirement (I doubt their father knows) that would likely end any thoughts they might ever have of becoming Catholic.

I will add that I do believe their marriages are valid, and that God’s grace supplies what his Church does not supply. God is not bound by His Church.

Thanks for giving voice to my longtime rant!

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